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The river that flows (acceptance)

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The flow in allowing acceptance



Allowing for acceptance in surrendering has been a journey I've embarked on in my own life. At first, I struggled with the idea of surrendering, as it felt like I was giving up or admitting defeat. However, I soon realized that surrendering is not about weakness, but rather a sign of incredible strength and courage.


In embracing acceptance, I've come to understand that there are certain aspects of life that are beyond my control. Instead of resisting or fighting against these things, surrendering allows me to find peace in the present moment. It's about letting go of my attachment to specific outcomes and trusting that things will unfold as they should, even if they're not what I had initially desired.


The practice of surrendering has taught me to release my need for control and opposition. I've discovered that by relinquishing resistance, I create space for inner peace and contentment. Even when faced with challenges and chaos, I can navigate through them with grace and resilience, knowing that I have the strength to endure and the wisdom to adapt.


Embracing the concept of impermanence has also been a crucial part of my journey towards acceptance in surrendering. I've come to realize that change is inevitable and that nothing remains the same forever. By surrendering, I'm able to flow with the natural ebb and flow of life, adapting to the ever-changing circumstances with greater ease and flexibility.


Trusting in a higher power or a greater force has also played a significant role in my process of surrendering. It's about acknowledging that there's a guiding energy beyond my control and surrendering to its wisdom. This acknowledgment brings a sense of relief, as it takes the burden of trying to control every aspect of my life off my shoulders and allows me to have faith in the journey.


At the the end of the day, allowing for acceptance in surrendering has transformed my life in profound ways. It has taught me that surrendering is not a sign of weakness, but rather a courageous act of letting go and finding peace amidst uncertainty. Through surrender, I've discovered a newfound sense of freedom, trust, and resilience that has empowered me to navigate life with greater ease and grace.



- Ashley 🤍


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12.18.23

BYE 2023 ! You’ve been kind to me